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A Friend Too Much?

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Friendship between men and women has always met with mixed remark when discussed. Is it hard for men and women to have a normal platonic relationship? When a guy cares for another lady, where is the line to how much should he care for her as a friend? Is a friendship between man and woman the same as a couple just minus the sex and romance? Would it be wrong for a guy to romance a lady without anything physical or sexual and yet remain friends. These question would leave even Einstein baffled so i am not going to even try answering them. Futhermore is does not effect me in anyway since i’m don’t belong to any of the category above.

Recently, a female colleague of mine ended a close friendship of 13 years after the guy confessed to having feelings for her all along. She was bursting in tears when i walked into her room and i just stood there and froze. I stood there a while thinking what to say but left since i tought she just needs sometime to herself. When she explained the situation to me, i was searching for the right thing to say but i didnt know what. Loosing a friend like this must hurt in ways i can’t think of. What was the right thing to say?

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May 28, 2008 at 6:44 am

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New Year, New Post

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The first week of 2008 has already passed by with the blink of an eye. I’m wondering if this is a good start for me this year with things being unsettling at work and the lack or rather no activity in my personal life. Maybe the year for me is to start out with a blank canvas. Start everything afresh and new. How possible can this be when my past still haunts me?

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May 18, 2008 at 2:20 pm

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i’m back…

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its was long ago that i wrote down here that i was going to kick start the year 2008 with a bang and this is sure one hell of a soft bang… hardly a bang i would say. But I’m back… at least that’s a start right.. many things had been happening lately… Imissed an opportunity in applying for a job in a fashion merchandising company, a rather important and famous one here in Malaysia. Just when i got serious about it and they closed the job application. It was rather a sad day for me when i found out. Well the job hunt continues. 

I’ve manage to sew a scarf or rather a… wait I’m not sure whats its called. I’m sure its not a scarf, that sound a bit girlie for something a guy would wear around his neck. this i would consider my first foray into the serious world of fashion. I’m planning to construct this new dress i design. I’ll post some pictures up when its done.  

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May 18, 2008 at 2:20 pm